Where can we have sex?

My girlfriend and I go to a school where we’re not allowed in each others’ dorms. Any ideas where we should have sex?

You might, of course, be able to get away with breaking the rules and just having sex in each others’ rooms. It’s possible that some of the people who are supposed to enforce those rules really don’t even care, though it’s always polite to make it as easy as possible for those overlooking rule-breaking by being discreet and giving them less rule-breaking that needs to be overlooked.

It also depends on what the consequences are for getting caught, since if you do break the rules consistently it’s entirely possible you’ll get caught at least a couple of times. If the consequences for getting caught up to a few times are tolerable, you can break the rules until the consequences for getting caught would be worse and then stop breaking the rules.

Of course, that assumes you don’t have respect for the rules, which you very well might, though your question does imply that you probably at least don’t care much for the spirit of those rules. Regardless, you’ve got some other options.

If the rules only apply to some people, like younger students, you might be able to borrow someone else’s room occasionally. You might also be able to rent a room in a local motel, though that is pretty costly and might only be a reasonable thing to do for a very special occasion. If either of your parents live near by, you might be able to take more weekend trips home, though your parents’ rules might not be any better than your school’s.

There are still a couple of other options too. You might take to having sex outside, particularly if you live somewhere with a warm climate. It might take some getting used to, but some people enjoy it a lot. You might also learn to have sex in public places, though if you’re intent isn’t exhibitionism, you’ll want to look for places like abandoned study lounges and dark corners of the library. You can get pretty sexual while staying pretty discreet with some clever positioning (like having a girl in a skirt sit on a boy’s lap) and a little bit of forethought (like cuddling under a blanket while you watch a movie).

Recommendations: Some books about having sex outside and having sex in public places, and a book that might give you some ideas for positions that won’t draw attention to yourselves (and maybe some other fun ideas too).