Should I ask my partner to fulfill my fantasy?

I find consensual, non-masturbatory relations to be trite. Would it be rude to suggest my partner pretend she doesn’t like being involved?

We think people should be open with their partners about their sexual needs and desires. And we think partners should be respectful of each other’s kinks even if they aren’t interested or eager to indulge them, though that is an honorable thing to do. But not everyone will respond so well. You run a risk of her not appreciating the idea, and there’s a fair chance she won’t be interested. But maybe she’ll be into it too.

Recommendations: a book about getting your girlfriend to fulfill your fantasies and a book about college sex and relationships.