How exactly can a hymen be broken?
How exactly can a hymen be broken? More than one way?
The hymen is a thin membrane which partially covers the vaginal opening. First, it’s important to know that all hymens are not created equal. They cover the opening of the vagina to different extents, and someone with a very thin hymen which does not cover a significant portion of the vaginal opening may never experience a significant tearing or breaking. It’s even possible (though unusual) to be born without a hymen.
Rarely, someone is born with a hymen which completely covers the vaginal opening. In that case, the hymen is surgically removed or cut. That surgery is also sometimes used to allow people with particularly thick, extensive hymens to use tampons or have intercourse.
Assuming you have an average hymen, it’s possible to tear it from a straddling injury (such as one might incur while biking or horseback riding). Some girls stretch or tear their hymens while figuring out tampons or menstrual cups. Having penetrative vaginal sex for the first time is a common way that the hymen is torn. Usually, some hymen is left intact until a woman gives birth vaginally.
If the hymen has been previously stretched or torn in some way, it may or may not stretch/break more during penetrative vaginal sex.
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