Can I ask a couple for a threesome?

I’ve heard of couples asking someone else to participate in a threesome, but could an individual approach a couple?

There are some natural reasons that a couple approaching another individual probably happens more frequently. The couple already shares an emotional and sexual intimacy, and together they’ve already agreed they are interested before they ask the third person, making it more likely that this situation will result in all parties agreeing. One person approaching a couple could also be more likely to be seen as a threat.

But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Asking could be awkward, and could have negative social effects, but that doesn’t stop people from asking for many other sexual things.

Recommendations: These three books are all about the having sex with one person – while The Threesome Handbook focuses on threesomes, the others two focus on polyamory and swinging.